Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Love

This is an interesting subject. What really is love? How can we define Love? Some define it feelings towards a person, some use to get another into bed. Lets be honest, love is term that is overly used. I can honestly say I have never know true love, I thought i have but don't we all. How many relationships end cause the relationship get old and boring, where people just drift apart and lose interest in one another, lie to each other to hide their real feeling not wanting to hurt the other. In my case the woman I like usually don't have the same feeling for me and the ones who like me I don't have feelings for them. If I wanted to, I could have stayed with these woman and lived the lie. Kinda like my marriage. With tracy, We got along but she never had my heart, and we got married cause she placed a guilt trip on me after she lost the baby. But I never should of fell for it. My own fault.

I have learned though out the years that loves is a very rare thing. Rare as in spending your life with someone and never looking back with regreats or looking to stray into the arms of another. To wake up in the morning knowing that after all the trials you truly know you can still be happy. Someone you can live with and not live without. And know she feels the same way about you. Someone you can share things with, and play with, enjoy a movie and have several things in common that can keep a bond growing as we pass time together. I know every relationship has disagreement but we must be able to speak our minds, have abit of space to calm down, and over come those to become stronger. It ay be a pipedream but it has to exsist somewhere.

Also you have to be best of friends before all else. Many relationships are based upon sexuality or lust for one another, but once the sex slows to a crawl, what are you left with? Co-exsisting which leads to a downfall. 2 people who just pass each other in the hall rarly looking at each other.

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